Great article! I was married to a man who I knew wasn't meant for me for 3 years. I was too scared to leave having convinced myself no one else would want me, when that was far from the truth. I left only when I discovered infidelity and was so grateful for that because it gave me a "reason" to leave. "Just because" I wasn't happy never felt like enough of a reason. I resonated with so much of what you said. I hope this touches others who may be with Mr. OK and need to hear this.