Thank you for this article. Although I am married, my husband is older and I am forty - not that it is too late to have kids at all, but I think that makes him reluctant. We got married later in life and tried unsuccessfully for some time to get pregnant and maybe turning forty and leaving an unsatisfying job has thrown me off balance. I find myself wanting a child, but I wonder if it's for the wrong reasons now. I don't know and thank you for validating that's OK right now.